Knowing our Roles

There has been some tension in our home. My mother is interfering in the selling of Wilson's and Jasmin's house. i've told her over and over again to let it go and let them handle it. They are old enough to know and do things but i just don't understand why my mother has to butt in. She feels she knows better and does what is best. She still feels that they are teenagers who don't know what they are doing. Giddy headed fools. My mother has crossed her boundaries and lives a life of control. She wants it.

i really don't know what to say and how to say it to her because any way i do it she will get hurt and sensitive about the issue.

I realise how important it is to run the race marked out for "US" and not for someone else even if we think we know what they ought to do about their lives. How do i make my mother understand this. And its not only her, but her sisters as well.